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Monday, August 5, 2013
Bastard Moments: The Almost Daughter #Adoption
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Veronica, we adult adoptees are thinking of you today and every day. We will be here when you need us. Your journey in the adopted life has begun, nothing can revoke that now, the damage cannot be undone. Be courageous, you have what no adoptee before you has had; a strong group of adult adoptees who know your story, who are behind you and will always be so.
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The truth is that it is a very lucrative business with a known sales pitch. With profits last estimated at over $1.44 billion dollars a year, mothers who consider adoption for their babies need to be very aware that all of this promotion clouds the facts and only though independent research can they get an accurate account of what life might be like for both them and their child after signing the adoption paperwork.
you are so right. i fully agree. adoption is quite a sensitive topic. especially for the child that gets adopted. while he or she is given a home to live in, no one can compensate for the fact that adoption feels like a label.
ReplyDeleteThanks Anonymous - being an adoptee is definitely a life-changer.
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