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Sunday, September 21, 2025

Robert Redford and George R.R. Martin Helped Bring 'Dark Winds' Into The World

 Full Circle Moment:

Robert Redford’s Final Acting Role Features Iconic Chess Scene with George R.R. Martin

 

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Robert Redford and George R.R. Martin Helped Bring 'Dark Winds' Into The World | Credit: AMC

Robert Redford’s final bow on screen arrived not with a bang, but a quiet, intense moment of strategy and silence: a chess game shared with none other than George R.R. Martin in AMC’s neo-Western series Dark Winds.  This unexpected yet profoundly significant cameo, debuting in the season three premiere of Dark Winds in March 2025, was the brainchild of Martin himself, both men executive producers of the show.

Watching these two giants sit across a dimly lit jail cell, moving pieces on a chessboard, crystallizes an extraordinary convergence of talent and legacy.  For Redford, who passed away on September 16, 2025, this was more than a final role; it was a full-circle moment in a career deeply intertwined with the stories of the American Southwest and authentic representation of Native American culture.

Redford’s final cameo in Dark Winds cements his enduring legacy, not just as an actor or director, but as a genuine ally who fought to bring Native voices to the forefront of cinema and television. His presence, brief yet profound, honors the stories he cherished and the people whose stories he wanted told truthfully. 

 Thank you Mr. Redford. Rest in Peace.

Thursday, July 4, 2024

How to be an Ally? Learn our history!

Photo by Alexey Demidov

Most of the time adoption is viewed as a rescue in a sense. A child in need of a home is given one with a family who will raise that child as their own. That simple story often doesn’t resemble the reality of what adoption can mean for a child or that child’s first mother. That is even more true if a child was a part of a Native American tribe at any time over the history of our country.

The Count 2024

The number of children adopted out of Native American tribes is so unclear that journalist and Native American Adoptee Trace Lara Hentz has embarked on an ambitious plan to get a count of every Native American adoptee she can this year. She tries to explain just how far-flung Native Adoptees can be.

“The United States adoptees, some of them were sent to Canada and some of the Canadian adoptees were sent to the United States, but like the story I published on the American Indian adoptees.com. There was a young woman from Canada who was taken to Scotland. I mean, literally, these adoptees are everywhere. I had a friend who found an adoptee in Iceland, So that’s why this count means so much to me. No one has ever published an actual count, one that we can look at and trust. It’s long overdue.” (1)

The Boarding School Nightmare

How did we get here? The tension between America’s original inhabitants and European settlers has been present since before America as a nation existed. Europeans tried to control or destroy the Native population in a variety of ways over the years. It was in the 1800s that they began to take the tribes’ children As Elizabeth Hidalgo Reece so aptly said in her article in Harper’s Bazaar, “The United States figured out a long time ago that it is impossible for a tribal nation to survive without its next generation.” (2) Native children were placed into boarding schools. The language and culture of their tribes of origin were forbidden. Children were dressed in the costumes of traditional European children and taught a whitewashed curriculum. More than 75% of the Native children who were in school at the turn of the century were in these boarding schools. (3) Life in a Native American boarding school wasn’t just harsh in the sense that the children there were deprived of their Native community. These schools were prone to disease outbreaks. Abuse of all kinds was known to plague these schools. The combination of lack of health care and abuse led to the deaths of hundreds of Native children throughout the existence of these schools. The number of dead in America is still not completely known. (4)

The Indian Adoption Project Deception

Even when the boarding school movement began to wind down in the late 1950s to 1960s that didn’t mean that efforts to separate native children from their families using adoption was over. In this period the Indian Adoption Project began. (5)This was another government policy. Rather than shuffling Native children into boarding schools, this policy sought to get them placed into white families. It is said that social workers sometimes came to native homes and just took children without talking to the adults involved. (5)The criteria for taking children was often questionable, but Native people didn’t have the standing to speak up for themselves or their families. As many as ⅓ of Native children during this time were taken from their homes and placed with non-native families. (6) Before better protections were in place it is said that 75-80% of families living on a reservation had lost at least one child to adoption outside of their tribe. 

A Shred of Hope

In 1978, less than 50 years ago, Congress passed the Indian Child Welfare Act. (7). Finally, potentially for the first time in our Country’s history, the voice of Native people pleading for their right to exist was starting to be heard. Common sense minimum standards were set that needed to be met before Native children could be taken from their homes. If children did need to leave their first families this law required that homes within the tribe be sought first, then if one couldn’t be found it mandated that a home be sought in another tribe before any non-native family is found for the children. (8)

Hope Under Attack

Native tribes can’t rest, though. Even as recently as recently as 2023 the Supreme Court weighed in on a case that may have meant that the ICWA was pronounced unconstitutional. In this case, a white family adopted a Navaho boy. The Navaho tribe stepped up, requesting that the boy be placed with a Navaho family. One of the arguments made in the case was that the white family was being discriminated against based on race. The tribe argued that tribal memberships were a citizenship designation and not a race. In the end, the ICWA was preserved. (9)

Children from Native tribes do sometimes legitimately need to be placed outside of their homes. When they do, compliance with the ICWA isn’t always followed as well as it should be. Part of the reason might be that those involved in the placement might not understand fully what is at stake (10) People, social workers especially, need to comprehend the importance of preserving Native tribes by making sure the children of tribes are immersed as fully as possible in their birth culture.

Trust the Tribes to Look out for Their Children

As much as non-Native families want to help the children of Native tribes, their place may not be to care for Native children themselves. Non-Native placements are looked at as a last resort by the ICWA after extended family, or Native American foster homes, whether those are within the child’s tribe or from another tribe. (11)

If we look back over the history of the Native people in America and the many attempts that this country has made to extinguish them and their culture, it starts to make sense that placing a Native child anywhere they cannot easily access their tribe and culture is much more than an inconvenience. Making sure Native children know their heritage can in some ways mean the life or death of their tribe and the tribe’s unique ways. (12)

When Being an Ally Means Staying on the Outside.

Knowledge of the history of this issue is necessary to be a true ally of Native people today. Making sure a child is in a safe home is necessary, but when we understand how the future of Native tribes rely on the ability to pass their culture and language down to the children of that tribe, that should change how non-Natives support them. We should be striving to support keeping children within their culture rather than separating them. 

Sources

  1. Spiering, Charlyn. “Trace Lara Hentz Talks About the Importance of “The Count 2024” to Native American Adoptees Everywhere.” Adoption Uncovered, 7 Feb. 2024, adoptionuncovered.com/2024/02/07/trace-lara-hentz-talks-about-the-importance-of-the-count-2024-to-native-american-adoptees-everywhere/.
  2. Hidalgo Reese, Elizabeth. “The Long History of Native American Adoptions.” Harper’s Bazaar, Hearst, 30 Nov. 2022, http://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a42097413/native-americans-scotus-adoption/.
  3. Abrams, Abigail. “The Fight Over Native American Adoptions Is About More Than Just the Children.” Time, 2 July 2019, time.com/longform/native-american-adoptions/ .
  4. Little, Becky. “Government Boarding Schools Once Separated Native American Children From Families.” History.com, 10 July 2023, http://www.history.com/news/government-boarding-schools-separated-native-american-children-families  .
  5. Randhawa, PJ. “‘Indian orphan nobody wanted gets parents’: The dark history of the Indian Adoption Project.” King5.com, 23 June 2023, http://www.king5.com/article/news/community/facing-race/indian-adoption-project-dark-history/281-a21a5d07-b405-4342-a6d7-ba3d0a01921f .
  6. Kaur, Harmeet. “Should Native Americans get preference over White people in adopting Native children? The Supreme Court may decide.” CNN.com, 13 Nov. 2022, http://www.cnn.com/2022/11/13/us/supreme-court-icwa-native-adoptions-cec/index.html .
  7. “ICWA History and Purpose.” dphhs.mt.gov, dphhs.mt.gov/cfsd/icwa/icwahistory#:~:text=The%20Indian%20Child%20Welfare%20Act,placed%20in%20non%2DIndian%20families.
  8. “About ICWA.” NICWA.org, http://www.nicwa.org/about-icwa/ .
  9. “ICWA RULED CONSTITUTIONAL BY U.S. SUPREME COURT.” potawatomi.org, 30 Aug. 2023, http://www.potawatomi.org/blog/2023/08/30/icwa-ruled-constitutional-by-u-s-supreme-court/#:~:text=In%202022%2C%20the%20states%20of,vote%2C%20June%2015%2C%202023. .
  10. Kraker, Dan. “Heart work: Training social workers to keep Native children home.” mprnews.org, 12 June 2023, http://www.mprnews.org/story/2023/06/12/heart-work-training-social-workers-to-keep-native-children-home .
  11. “Topic 16.Placement.” narf.org, narf.org/nill/documents/icwa/faq/placement.html .
  12. “Identity Crisis: Tribal Nonenrollment & Its Consequences for Children.” embracerace.org, http://www.embracerace.org/resources/identity-crisis-tribal-nonenrollment-its-consequences-for-children .

SOURCE: https://adoptionuncovered.com/2024/02/28/native-american-adoptees-can-help-their-tribes-continue-to-exist-but-only-if-they-know-who-they-are/comment-page-1/#respond

Wednesday, October 6, 2021

'Read that report' : How to be an ally

 How to keep being an ally from the perspective of 2 Indigenous N.W.T.'ers

'If people want to be our allies, please, get informed, be aware,' says Lawrence Norbert

Lawrence Norbert was among the first Grollier Hall students to come forward with the truth about abuse at residential schools. In 1998, Norbert and others who attended the residential school formed the Grollier Hall Residential School Healing Society. (Submitted by Lawrence Norbert)

When Lawrence Norbert, a Gwichʼin from Tsiigehtchic in N.W.T., attended a Roman Catholic-run residential school as a child, he remembers having very little say in what he did, and he said it limited how much he could think for himself.

"Everything [was] all regimented. You wake up at this time, you have breakfast at this time, you have your chores at this time, you go to school at this time, you have your prayers again, supper and then you go back. And then you go to bed," he said.

"So, you get into this thinking that everything is being done for me. So there's no encouragement of thinking, there's no encouragement of questioning," he said. "It's all dependency thinking."

He said that was a part of the trauma and violence he and many others faced at residential schools, and that he had to work to overcome.

On Thursday, Canada observed its first National Day for Truth and Reconciliation, which helped bring more attention to the ongoing trauma that Indigenous people faced and continue to face.

Norbert, who spoke with CBC's Loren McGinnis, host of The Trailbreaker, leading up to the day, said if non-Indigenous people want to be allies, they need to do their research to start fully understanding the impact the schools had.

And, he says, they can start by reading the Truth and Reconciliation Commission of Canada's final report. (Find all of the commission's multiple volumes of reports here or read the summary of the final report (585 pages) here. Paper copies are available at local libraries.)

'Read the whole report'

"If you want to be allies, read that report," Norbert said.

"Read the whole report so that you get that real understanding of why we as Indigenous people who have gone through the residential school policy, have such a hard time dealing with your culture, your bureaucracy, your policies, your religion."

Norbert and other students who attended Grollier Hall, a residential school in Inuvik, N.W.T., formed a group in the late 90s to speak up about the abuses at residential school, and the injustices of that system. They fought for compensation for that abuse and became one of 10 groups in Canada whose efforts eventually led to the Indian residential school settlement agreement, which included the common experience payment, the independent assessment process and the formation of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission.

He suggests if people don't want to or can't read the full report, then they can try to read the United Nations Declaration on the Rights of Indigenous People (full text here, 18 pages).

"If people want to be our allies, please, get informed, be aware. You don't have to atone for the sins of your father, but you know, I think the first step is not to repeat the sins of your fathers."

Pauline Tardiff is a residential school survivor living in Fort Smith, N.W.T. (Submitted by Pauline Tardiff)

Pauline Tardiff, a residential school survivor living in Fort Smith, N.W.T., said it's not enough for non-Indigenous people to just hear what happened at the residential schools.

"My thoughts is that when a settler hears about what really happened in Canadian history, I think they should take on the responsibility of learning what that meant," she told The Trailbreaker.

That includes understanding the lasting trauma today that can cause other problems including addiction.

She pointed to the conflict in Yellowknife involving business owners, the city, the territorial government and other organizations over where a shelter should be located. Many shop owners have said having a shelter on the same street as them would drive away business.

"That's why I have a hard time understanding why the Yellowknife businesses don't think that it's important to acknowledge that this is a part of what happened to us," she said.

"People need to understand that residential schools ... isn't just about what happened long ago, it's still very prevalent today."

Reconciliation not just one thing

Marie Wilson, a former commissioner of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, said as a non-Indigenous person, it's important to always "turn back to the survivors themselves."

"I know there's a lot of disdain and sometimes growing discouragement around whether reconciliation is even possible, or whether it even has meaning or whether people believe in it and all that sort of thing," she said.

"What I know is that it was the survivors through their courageous court case and settlement agreement, that's the wording they used. They asked for truth, they said, the purpose of the truth was to contribute to the freeing of spirits and to the healing of individuals and families and community."

Marie Wilson, former commissioner of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, places a bundle of beaver skin on the ceremonial cloth with the names of 2,800 children who died in residential schools and were identified in the National Student Memorial Register, during the Honouring National Day for Truth and Reconciliation ceremony in Gatineau, Quebec on Monday, Sept. 30, 2019. (Justin Tang/The Canadian Press)

She also pointed out that the survivors say reconciliation is not just one thing.

"It's way more complicated than that," she said. "But what they said is that it is an ongoing, individual and collective process." 

She added that involves survivors and their families, all levels of the government, the churches and the people of Canada.

"All of us," she said. 

For now, Norbert said he's grateful that younger generations in his community won't face that same trauma he and countless others did.

"Here in Tsiigehtchic, I see young parents, they spend so much time with their kids out on the land, just about every weekend. You see boats going up or down the rivers," he said.

"It just warms my heart because you know, their kids don't have to experience what we've experienced."

SOURCE

Tuesday, February 9, 2021

45 Years of Engaging Native Voices + How to be an ALLY


*only 0.4 % Of Primetime TV & Films have a native character

 

LINCOLN, Neb., Feb. 9, 2021 — This year, Vision Maker Media — founded in 1976 as the Native American Public Broadcasting Consortium — is celebrating 45 years of engaging Native voices in public media platforms.

“What began as a film archive to conserve and document Native American stories has, through the years, transformed into the nation’s public-media leader in content by and about America’s first people — Native Americans and Alaska Natives — for public broadcasting,” says Executive Director Francene Blythe-Lewis (Diné, Sisseton-Wahpeton, Eastern Cherokee).

With continuous support from the Corporation for Public Broadcasting and Nebraska Educational Telecommunications, Vision Maker Media’s mission empowering and engaging Native people to share their stories remains meaningful. Currently, Vision Maker Media has 28 projects in various stages of production and 34 films in public-media broadcasting, 5 of which were added in fiscal year 2020.

Vision Maker Media’s content reaches nearly 90 million Americans on public television series, including Independent Lens, POV, America ReFramed, American Masters and others.

 
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