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Friendship Centre starts ‘60s Scoop healing group
(TORONTO STAR) Chelsea Kemp | Brandon Sun | Jan. 17, 2022
The
Brandon Friendship Centre has launched a new program focused on helping
’60s Scoop survivors navigate their healing journey.
The
Friendship Centre Healing Foundation was created using grant money
provided by the ’60s Scoop Foundation to help survivors heal from the
trauma of their experiences, said new co-ordinator Debbie Huntinghawk.
The funding will support the foundation for a year, she said, but their
hope is it will be able to build a successful program that will run for
many years to come.
The ’60s Scoop
is part of Canada’s colonial legacy and involved the removal of
Indigenous children from their parents, families, communities and
cultures. It left a generation of traumatized youth who have struggled
to find their place in their communities and country because they have
no cultural identity or community ties, she said.
These
survivors are now middle-aged community members coping with significant
pain and trauma from their loss of identity and place.
“They’re homeless, they’re lost, struggling to find their identity, their language and where they belong,” Huntinghawk said.
Talking
about surviving the ’60s Scoop is a heartbreaking experience that
leaves survivors with raw emotions that need tending to heal. The
foundation will help facilitate healing through education, support,
trauma-informed care, understanding of the ’60s Scoop and meeting
survivors where they are at on their life journeys.
“We’re
walking with people, not pulling them or dragging them or pushing them.
We’re walking with people as they are doing their healing,” said
cultural support worker Deborah Tacan. “We sit there and we talk
heart-to-heart.”
Tacan is a ’60s Scoop survivor. She had six brothers, who were taken and adopted across Canada and the United States.
They
were never brought back together as a family when they were children,
but they did find each other again as adults. But there is not that same
connection as if they had grown up as a family with their other
relatives.
She
noted ’60s Scoop survivors faced a life-changing experience because
they were physically removed from their families and communities. All of
their ties to their culture and traditions were cut off when they were
youth just beginning to learn who they are.
“They
were stripped of their whole culture. They never went back to their
communities,” Tacan said. “They were never brought back — it interrupted
their kinship ties … aunties, uncles, we don’t have those connections
to those people because you are taken right out of your culture.”
These experiences left survivors unmoored, without an identity and craving meaningful connections.
The
goal of the foundation is to help people understand the painful loss of
these familial and community connections and the trauma inflicted on
survivors, Tacan said.
It is a
challenging conversation because many survivors blame their parents for
what happened to them as children, Tacan said. She and her siblings
understand all the systemic barriers in place that led to their removal
from their family.
She hopes to help people understand and heal from these traumatic thoughts that have left deep wounds on the soul.
It
is important to engage in these healing and recovery practices with
survivors, Huntinghawk said, so future generations do not have to carry
the trauma brought on by the ’60s Scoop.
Huntinghawk
said in many cases, Indigenous children taken during the scoop were
placed in non-Indigenous homes. It was a context where they were raised
to think their culture, heritage and traditions were inferior.
This
happened to her mom, and the trauma was passed onto Huntinghawk growing
up. Her mother was taken and raised in a Catholic household and removed
from her Indigenous identity.
“For
me when I grew up, I was always told it was no good to be an Indian. It
was bad,” Huntinghawk said. “I had that ingrained in my head for years,
that you don’t want to be a part of that ‘savage’ community.”
It
was a toxic ideology to grow up with, she said, and it took time and
work to heal from. It was challenging to hear her mother’s experiences
growing up in a non-Indigenous home, especially because she had 13 other
siblings she was taken from.
“I
feel like I’m doing the healing work for my mom because my mom didn’t
get to heal,” Huntinghawk said. “She didn’t get to do that work.”
It has been an amazing experience helping those who come to the Brandon Friendship Centre doors looking for aid, she said.
Huntinghawk recently worked with one survivor who was born in Manitoba and sent to Ontario during the ’60s Scoop.
He
later returned to the province living with addiction and homelessness.
Huntinghawk said he was in a challenging position because he did not
know where to start on his healing journey.
His
visit to the Friendship Centre was spurred by his application for a
compensation settlement from the federal government as part of a
class-action lawsuit was denied.
“His
brother and sister got it, but not him because he messed up on his
application,” Huntinghawk said. “That’s why we’re here. We’re here to
support them and get them established.”
She
helped him find the name of the housing co-ordinator support person and
is also working to help him re-apply for ’60s Scoop compensation.
“All we do is listen to what they need from us,” Huntinghawk said.
The
man was not in a unique situation, she said, as many survivors are
denied their applications because they are unhoused. They do not have a
way to keep correspondence during the application process because they
do not have an address.
These
survivors can now have applications sent to the foundation, and
Friendship Centre staff will serve as a middleman to help survivors
navigate the claims process.
She
added the Friendship Centre will also work to help fill out
applications, because the lengthy document can be intimidating for
survivors. Huntinghawk said clients need help navigating these systems
that can often put an end to someone’s healing journey before they even
take their first step.
The goal is
to build the program and tailor the supports to survivors based on their
needs and ensure it operates in a good way.
“We’re
just learning, too. We’re going to try and do our best, and gather
information from the people that come to understand what they are
wanting, what they are needing, what are they hoping to find out,” Tacan
said. “We need to know those questions, so we can ask those questions
on behalf of the people.”
The
Friendship Centre will host a ’60s Scoop information session dubbed
“Healing the Family Within” at the Mahkaday Ginew Memorial Centre at 205
College Ave. on Jan. 28 from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m.
The
session will cover topics including the history of the ’60s Scoop, the
effects on individuals, families and kinship ties, discussions on
healing programs and resources and information on the ’60s Scoop claims
process. Guest speaker and ’60s Scoop survivor Marlene Oregon will also
provide a presentation.
Tacan added the title, “Healing the Family Within,” was chosen with a specific purpose.
“We
all carry a family within us. It doesn’t matter who we are; we all have
a family inside of us that we think about as ’60s Scoop survivors. We
have that in our minds, that we’re going to get back together and we’re
going to be a family,” Tacan said. “But when it happens, that’s not
always the case. It’s not this romantic idea that we have in our minds —
we have to heal that inside of us.”
Seating
for the “Healing the Family Within” is limited and registration in
advance is required. Contact the Brandon Friendship Centre at
204-727-1407 for more details.