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- You're Breaking Up: Adoptive Couple v. Baby Girl #ICWA
- FAQ ICWA 2016
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- THE PLACEMENT OF AMERICAN INDIAN CHILDREN - THE NEED FOR CHANGE (1974)
- NEW: Study by Jeannine Carriere (First Nations) (2007)
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Thursday, May 31, 2018
Sunday, May 27, 2018
Keep Dancing: We are NOT Victims
THIS IS AN EARLIER POST from this blog
Poison is nothing to mess with. I spoke with an adoptee friend last night and Levi is sure we adoptees need to create new ceremonies, even some just for us adoptees. I was nodding at every word Levi said. A lifetime of isolation from what we know to be ours, our blood rights as Indigenous People, our language and culture and the healing offered by participating in ceremony, it was not ours growing up white and adopted and assimilated.
But we adoptees are not victims, Levi said. No, we are changed by adoption but not its victims.
By Trace L Hentz (blog editor)
“I get up. I walk. I fall down. Meanwhile I keep dancing.”
That is a line in the book “Bird by Bird” by Ann Lamott. Her comical book offers instructions on
writing and life and so far -- I’ve had good belly laughs. Yep, Ann made a funny book!
In part two, Ann was fighting herself over jealousy of another
writer friend. She wrote, “Sometimes this human stuff is slimy and pathetic - jealousy
especially so - but better to feel it and talk about it and walk through it
than to spend a lifetime poisoned by it."Poison is nothing to mess with. I spoke with an adoptee friend last night and Levi is sure we adoptees need to create new ceremonies, even some just for us adoptees. I was nodding at every word Levi said. A lifetime of isolation from what we know to be ours, our blood rights as Indigenous People, our language and culture and the healing offered by participating in ceremony, it was not ours growing up white and adopted and assimilated.
But we adoptees are not victims, Levi said. No, we are changed by adoption but not its victims.
I thought about
ceremony, what ceremony I missed growing up, and what other Indian people probably
took for granted growing up. That does make me jealous. I didn’t get to meet my
grandmothers in flesh, only in dreams.
I am sad I do not how to make my own regalia. I see others
dance at powwow and wish someone had time to teach me what I need to know.
I can think of a million things I’d like to know. When I met
relatives in Illinois last year, I was over the moon happy. My Harlow cousins filled many holes in my heart.
I am in reunion.
Jealousy is not my poison.
For those not in reunion, their hearts ache. We need to find
a way to heal them.
Wednesday, May 23, 2018
How Foster Care Has Stripped Native American Children of Their Own Cultures
“Some envision themselves as saviors, maintaining that Native children are better off growing up in white homes.”
Removal didn’t just happen through boarding schools. Native children were also taken from their families and communities and placed with non-Natives. Lost Bird was among the first. She was found as an infant under her mother’s frozen body after the Wounded Knee Massacre in 1890, when more than 150 unarmed Lakota were slaughtered by the U.S. Cavalry. She was adopted by Gen. Leonard Colby. Her life was difficult and marred with rejection and abuse: Her adoptive father was indifferent to her existence, and her adoptive mother attempted to raise her as white, but society would not accept her. No one could erase her desire to learn about her Lakota roots, either.
By the 1970s, research found that approximately 25% to 35% of all Native children in the U.S. were being placed in foster homes, adoptive homes, or institutions, and 85% of these children were being placed outside of their families and communities, even when fit and willing relatives were available to care for them. Research has shown that Native children in foster care who stayed connected to their culture did better, and those who weren’t were at greater risk for behavioral and mental health problems.
MUST READ: The Foster Care System Has Failed Native American Youth
Friday, May 11, 2018
Coming Up: Native America Calling: Tracy Rector
Tracy Rector's (Choctaw/Seminole) films have been seen by
audiences at the Cannes Film Festival, ImagineNative, the Toronto
International Film Festival, and PBS. Her latest work, Dawnland, follows
Maine's Truth and Reconciliation Commission to address the removal of
Native children from their homes. The other films she's worked on
include Teachings of the Tree People, March Point, and Ch'aak' S'aagi.
Rector describes herself as a mixed race urban Indian, filmmaker and
activist. We'll talk with her about her passion for filmmaking, social
justice and what is next for her career.
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To Veronica Brown
Veronica, we adult adoptees are thinking of you today and every day. We will be here when you need us. Your journey in the adopted life has begun, nothing can revoke that now, the damage cannot be undone. Be courageous, you have what no adoptee before you has had; a strong group of adult adoptees who know your story, who are behind you and will always be so.

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