Pray for mothers across
the planet so they can keep their children with them until they grow big and
strong.... (from my memoir One Small Sacrifice)
By Trace (Adoptee-Lost Bird)
How many
more Lost Birds will lose hope unless laws change? This breaks my heart again and again. I can’t
take their journey for them. I can’t open their sealed adoption records for them. I will work with them and put them in touch with search angel Karen Vigneault. I also recommend DNA testing now. I recommend ceremony now.
I heard stern warnings from elders,
too. I was taught if people are not receptive to your words, let them proceed –
even into difficulty or dangerous circumstances. It is the only way they’ll
learn. This does not mean I should not pay attention – it’s just means that
taking care of someone else’s pain could be harmful to me. There are many books
on being co-dependent. It is no way to live.
Each adoptee must journey their own
way, as far as they can. I’ve learned this.
I've made my share of mistakes
definitely. I did try to push myself and rush things. I acted impatient and hurt. I
finally learned to take my journey as it happens, and not try to control it.
Adoption laws protect adoption agencies and social workers from lawsuits and shelter adoptive parents who think we are "theirs."
Adoptees must face the pain with these archaic laws, adoption myths, government sealed files and no answers. If people really understood, there
would be no more closed adoptions.
Those
who conduct adoptions must take a much closer look at the harm on infants, adoptee trauma, birth
psychology, stress and mental illness. The system of closed adoption, in the
words of one lawyer, is barbaric.
One
day we will all look back at this and say “how did we ever let this happen to
innocent children?”
If you are still searching, contact me and Karen Vigneault. (See header for more info)
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Trafficking in Babies?
Here is a link to a story about the Nightlight Adoption Agency who brokered the sale of Baby Veronica.
HERE
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Trafficking in Babies?
Here is a link to a story about the Nightlight Adoption Agency who brokered the sale of Baby Veronica.
PURE PROPAGANDA - take a look for yourself... Together for adoption? That's what they say... A child who has a parent who wishes to raise them is not an orphan but a commodity, someone sold into adoption, which is trafficking...Lara/Trace HERE
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